Abakubizi ngokuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, kodwa le nqubo entsha ifinyelela umphumela ofanayo.Izingane ezinezinyanga ezingu-7 zisebenzisa ibhodwe futhi abazali balahla ama-diapers.
Intatheli yezokwelapha ye-Early Show uDkt. Emily Senay uye emndenini wakwaTwelker lapho ukubiza kwemvelo kuwukuhleba nje endlebeni: "Ssss-ssss."
Lapho u-Kate Twelker ecabanga ukuthi ingane yakhe uLucia enezinyanga ezi-4 kufanele ihambe, usuke elungele yena nebhodwe.
"Akahambi uma engakudingi," kusho uTwelker."Kodwa, empeleni, imtshela ukuthi 'Heyi, kulungile manje, ungakhululeka.'
Kodwa ungayibizi ngokuthi "ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi," kubiza ngokuthi "ukuxhumana kokuqeda."Kusukela ngosuku lokuqala, abazali bajwayela izingane zabo ukusabela esidingweni sokuhamba.
“Ubephatheke kabi ngaso sonke isikhathi uma echama enabukeni lakhe,” kusho uTwelker."Kimina, kumjabulisa kakhulu, futhi kuthuthukisa lobo budlelwane phakathi kwethu - lelo zinga elengeziwe lokuthembana."
UChristine Gross-Loh wakhulisa abafana bakhe ababili esebenzisa le nqubo, futhi usebenza njengomeluleki ngengosi ye-Internet ebizwa ngokuthi i-diaperfreebaby.org ukuze asize abanye abazali babone futhi baphendule izifiso zemvelo zengane yabo.
“Ngomqondo othile ingane yakho ikufundisa,” kusho uGross-Loh."Kumayelana nokukhulumisana ngesidingo esiyisisekelo ingane yakho ekutshela yona kusukela izalwa. Abafuni ukuzingcolisa; bayaqaphela ukuthi bafuna nini ukuya endlini yangasese. Bangase baxabane noma baqhume noma grimace futhi, njengomzali, uma uqala ukulalela lezi zimpawu, njengoba nje uvula isidingo sengane yakho sokudla noma sokulala, khona-ke ufunda lapho kufanele iye endlini yokugezela."
Abanye ochwepheshe abaqiniseki.
UDkt. Chris Lucas we-New York University Child Study Center, uthi, “Ngaphambi kwezinyanga ezingu-18, izingane aziqapheli ukuthi isinye sigcwele yini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyavaleka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi simanzi, futhi ziyakwazi yini ukutshela abazali ngalezo zinto. zilinganiselwe."
Kodwa u-Twelker uthemba ukuthi izinzuzo zizodlula ukuqeqeshwa kwebhodwe.
“Uma esekwazi ukuzihambela, ngethemba ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthi angakwazi ukuzihambela yedwa ebhodweni,” usho kanje."Kimina, noma iyiphi indlela engingakwazi ngayo ukuxhumana naye, nganoma iyiphi indlela eyengeziwe, kusho ukuthi sizoba nobudlelwano obungcono, manje nasesikhathini esizayo."
Njengamanje kunamaqembu "Ekuqedwa Kwezokuxhumana" angama-35 ezweni lonke ahlelwe yi-diaperfreebaby.org.Lawa maqembu ahlanganisa omama abacobelelana ngolwazi futhi basekelane emzamweni wokuba nengane engenamanabukeni.
Kulo mhlaba okhulayo wokuncintisana wokuba umzali, ngokuqinisekile uzothola labo ababona lokhu njengendlela eyodwa yokuthola abancane ngaphambi kwephakethe lonke.Kodwa uDkt Senay uthi lokho kuzobe kuphambene ngempela nomoya walokhu lamaqembu azama ukukufeza.Ababeki iminyaka abathi ngayo izingane zidinga ukukhululeka ngamanabukeni.Basho ngempela ukuthi izingane nabazali kudingeka baxhumane futhi baphendule izinkomba zomunye nomunye.
Ngokuqondene nabazali abasebenzayo, abanakekeli abalandela iziqondiso zabazali bangakwenza lokhu.Futhi ukuqeda ukuxhumana kungaba ingxenye yesikhathi.Akudingekile ukuba kube njalo.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jan-20-2024