Abafana namantombazane baletha izinselele eziyingqayizivele kuzo zonke izindawo zokukhulisa izingane - futhi ukuqeqeshwa ngebhodwe kuyinto efanayo.Nakuba amantombazane nabafana bethatha cishe isikhathi esifanayo sokuqeqesha (izinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili ngokwesilinganiso), kunomehluko omningi phakathiabafanafuthiamantombazanekuyo yonke inqubo.U-Jan Faull, umeluleki we-Pull-Ups® Potty Training, wabelana ngamathiphu okusiza intokazi yakho encane noma ukuqeqeshwa kwebhodwe ngobungcweti.
I-1) Iphumelela Kancane futhi Iqinile Njalo
Kungakhathaliseki ubulili, izingane zithuthuka ngenqubo yokuqeqesha amabhodwe ngesilinganiso sazo nangendlela yazo.Ngenxa yalokhu, sikhumbuza abazali ukuthi bavumele ingane yabo ukuthi ibeke ijubane lebhodwe kanye nephrothokholi.
“Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi izingane ngokuvamile azibambeki ekuchameni nasekuchameni ngesikhathi esisodwa.”“Uma ingane ikhombisa intshisekelo yokufunda, yivumele igxile kulowo msebenzi.Kuzoba lula kakhulu ngengane yakho ukunqoba ikhono elilandelayo lembiza ngokuzethemba okutholwe empumelelweni yangaphambili.”
2) Njengomzali, Njengomntwana
Izingane zingabalingisi abakhulu.Kuyindlela elula yokuthi bafunde imiqondo emisha, okuhlanganisa ukusebenzisa ibhodwe.
“Nakuba isibonelo sanoma yiluphi uhlobo sizosiza izingane zifunde ukuqeqesha ngebhodwe, izingane zivame ukufunda kangcono ngokubuka abantu abayisibonelo esenziwe njengabo—abafana babukela oyise namantombazane bebuka omama babo.”“Uma umama noma ubaba engakwazi ukuba khona ukuze asize, umalumekazi noma umalume, noma umzala omdala, angangenela. Ukufuna ukufana nomfana noma intombazane endala abahlonishwayo ngokuvamile yikho konke ugqozi oludingwa umntwana. ube ngumpetha wamanzi.”
3) Ukuhlala vs. Ukumela Abafana
Ngenxa yokuthi ukuqeqesha amabhodwe nabafana kuhilela kokubili ukuhlala nokuma, kungase kudideke ukuthi yimuphi umsebenzi okufanele ufundiswe kuqala.Sincoma ukuthi usebenzise izinkomba zengane yakho ukuze unqume ukuthi yikuphi ukuqhubeka okwenza kube nengqondo enganeni yakho eyingqayizivele.
“Abanye abafana bafunda ukuchama kuqala ngokuhlala bese kamuva bema, kuyilapho abanye bephikelela bema zisuka nje lapho bezilolongela amabhodwe.’” “Kubalulekile lapho uqeqesha indodana yakho ukuba isebenzise izinto eziguquguqukayo, njengokusanhlamvu endlini yangasese, ukuze ifundise. ukuze ahlose ngokunembile.”
Nakuba ukuqeqeshwa kwehluka phakathi kwabafana namantombazane, ukuhlala unethemba kanye nesineke kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo yawo wonke umzali nomqeqeshi wembiza.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Dec-19-2023